Your own self is your worst critic. And your not the only one who isnt happy with anything with your life and your not the only one who thinks that life would be sooooo different if you could turn back time, or move to the other side of the fence where the grass is greener.
Why are people so unhappy with their selves and lives? Why cant we just accept the life we have and look we got and live our life to the fullest?
Why do we compair ourselves to others when truthfully its an act that everything is fine and perfect cause no one is perfect no one has the perfect life. Thats the reality people need to realize. But yet the mirages people put out there of their life and self is so convensing so we all get stuck on how we wish we were like them.
Do you know what I mean? I sure hope you do cause I know I face this battle everyday. Isnt it nice to read it somewhere that someone else feels the way you do?
Another question that goes through my mind is why do people judge people in public espeically the mothers with their temper tantrum throwing toddler in a restaurant or store. Those looks that mothers get...you know what Im talking about. The reason I believe they give these looks is because their children are the same way thats why they aint gutsy enough to bring them to places like these. So aplaud yourself for attempting to have a nice trip to a restaurant or store even if you know what the outcome is going to be, you are much braver than the women or people who give you dirty looks.
I wanted to also point out the women who hover over the toilets to avoid contact with germs. The least you could do is wipe the seat when your done so the people brave like me can sit down on dry toilet seats and not sit in your small puddle of pee you left behind. Common ladies! It came out of you clean it up! LOL.
OK lets see here. Ah yes lets talk about how people judge people because of what they vent. Lets see here no one really sits down and tells how wonderful their hubbies are or whom ever is. They need to vent about all the bad stuff...so after a while of hearing all this negative stuff about someone or someones situation, soon people are going to either a. turn you in to athorities, b. tell you to leave the a--hole, or c. cut that person out of your life. So why do they judge like this? Well you would do the same thing if you only heard bad things about a person or situation...and venting about good stuff usually leads to someone trying to steal that somebody from you...so why vent the good stuff? No one wants to brag about how well they have it with someone for fear they will loose them to the person you are venting to. Plus venting bad stuff helps verses venting good stuff, it only back fires on you in some way. So how about we all start to vent about the good stuff and bad stuff evenly...with every negative thing you have to say about someone find two good things about them to say. If you cant find any good about them to say, maybe you need to evaluate the situation better and maybe listen to your gut and stop putting up with all the bad stuff cause you can do better and deserve better. People are critics but you are your worst critic and the people outside of yourself have judgment that sometimes back fires on you and sends you into the worst place in your life you can be in. So like I said start looking for the good stuff and put two good things to the one bad thing and then it will all even out. But again I say if you cannot find many good things, you deserve better and you probably need to cut that person out of your life.
Don't you hate it when you forget to call a friend cause you get busy with life and space it off? If you are the friend who is not called, try to put yourself in their shoes for a moment. Having kids is distracting or if having an overwhelming house that needs cleaned can be overwhelming. Whatever is in their life try to picture yourself dealing with whatever and try to imagine how hard it is to remember to pick up the phone. Or how about the one who has nothing to do but cant seem to pick up that 1 ton phone to call anyone? Its not easy to call people when you feel like doing nothing but sleeping all day cause of depression or whatever. If you are the person who cant seem to remember to call your friend, try writing their name on sticky notes and place them all over the house where you can see the notes. Or if you have pictures of you and your friend hang them up around the house to remember "hey I need to call her/him". There are things that both can agree on...like if they dont call you, you call them...or take turns calling eachother, to start the call game play a game and the loser gets to call first. And be polite if you need to remind the person its their turn to call you. There are ways to get around this and find a median where both of the friends or family members can both be happy.
Ok thats all thats on my mind at the moment. I will post more as more thoughts come to mind